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My Marine boyfriend
Posted By: Jackie Ceja 08-31-11
I've been dating my boyfriend for five months now. He has done the OCS, and in summer of 2012 he will be going to The Basic School. I find it so hard thinking that I won't be able to keep in touch with him and that he won't be here for me. I am really happy for him because he is really excited to become a Marine Officer, and I am also really proud because he is such a hard worker. I know he will be a great leader. But I don't know if I can handle being with someone long distance. I've read some of the Marine wives, and it breaks my heart into pieces. I really don't know what to do. I love him so much, but at the same time I want to think of my own life and how I have always envisioned it. I always thought I'd marry a guy who would work and then come home to me every night. I don't know if I should wait for Mike. I feel so depressed thinking about breaking up, but I feel even more depressed thinking that I would break up with him after he goes. I would never want to hurt him and make any complications. I'm so confused. I really don't know what to do.
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