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Boot Camp Life

Posted By: LAURA TAFFAR 09-06-10

 
My boyfriend left on June 7, 2010, destination MCRD San Diego for 13 long, brutal weeks of Boot Camp. Those 1st few weeks were the hardest weeks I have ever endured. The anticipation of waiting on mail, needing to read those I Love Yous because I hadn’t heard them in so long, needing to know he was ok & safe & happy. I prayed every night that the time would fly by & that he was happy with his decision to join the elite. We went from doing everything together for a year, to no contact what so ever. That was very, very difficult! He missed our 1 year anniversary, missed 4th of July, missed a lot. He graduated September 3rd, and going to California to see him, spending those 5 hours with him on Family Day where he was programmed & still in that mode, and then watching him graduate on Friday was one of the most memorable times of my life. Those 13 weeks were difficult & there were many times when I thought I couldn’t make it. But after going to graduation & seeing how happy he was and the pride he had when people thanked him or he heard himself called a Marine, made it all worth it. It was tough for sure, but for those of you experiencing it now, wait those 13 weeks & you will feel the happiness & pride that I have felt. I thank every one of you that have given your son, daughter, spouse, best friend, or loved one to this elite force of men & women - They are doing a wonderful thing & every single one of them, as well as you, are in their prayers!!!

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Oh Molly!!!! Honey, I feel your pain!! Before boot camp, my boyfriend & I were never apart for more than a few hours & when we were, we were constantly talking. He went on a 10 day Hunting trip in November & I cried everyday, but he still had his phone & I still got to talk to him! Boot camp is tough, I can guarantee that! But, youll start getting more letters soon! Their mail system is VERY disorganized! I numbered all of my letters & he said he got 123 and then 3 days later got 96 so its a mess. But, he will get your letters, he will get to read them & he gets time at night to write you back. Just, stay strong!!!I hated the disconnected feeling. I missed him so much & it was a challenge, but if its meant to be, youll make it!! Boot camp is a real test of a relationship & of the love you have for that Marine. If you go out for family day & graduation it is the most wonderful experience!! It made me so proud to see him in that uniform and know that he did it!! Those 13 weeks are tough on them too. They are out doing extensive physical training & all they have are each other. Atleast you have family & friends by your side!!! Just stay positive & motivated - Look forward to him coming home. If you ever need to talk, Im here! Ive been thru it, & its tough, but it is definitely worth it! My boyfriend left last Tuesday to go back to Camp Pendelton for 29 days of MCT & then he'll go straight to 29 palms for 6 weeks! Is your boyfriend active duty?

Posted by: LAURA TAFFAR on 09/21/2010

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Molly Roberts Avatar

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thank you for your story laura. my boyfriend left for boot camp in san diego on sept 7. it has only been tto weeks but it feels like so much longer. i am out of my skin with how anxious i am. i have never gone this long without talking to him and it scares me how disconnected i feel to him. i have only gotten a very small letter, on this Marine stationary. it was obvious he sent it before he recieved my letters. i am dying for a response. this is so hard. i feel like december third will never come.

Posted by: Molly Roberts on 09/20/2010

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Kathy Honan Avatar

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Thank you Laura. My son left for Boot Aug 9. I am already out of my skin waiting for Nov. I was a Navy wife for 4 years, but as a Mom, it's different. I am so proud, but miss my son so much. I hold onto my faith and I know he will be okay. I usually just live one day at a time, but I have to admit, I can't wait til Nov. Congrats to you for being strong and hanging in there and congrats to your boyfriend. You are both in my prayers.

Posted by: Kathy Honan on 09/08/2010

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